im back i guess
hey its me again and its been a year since i last visited this yikes thats scary but anyways i go to therapy now which is awesome and i love my psychologist shes amazing and lovely and so so great and i saw her today and we got talking about my mother and how she's so controlling. for the sake of this, we're called my psychologist allie. so allie pretty much was like "look, i understand that shes controlling now and you might think that when you leave to go to uni that it will all get better, but you have to keep in mind the fact that she is still going to want to be very involved in your life. she's going to question you on why you date this person and why you want to marry them and if you end up coming out, then why you came out and then why you sent your kids to this school and why you're buying a house here and why you're going to work here. you have to be prepared for that to be a possibility" and honestly i thought that that was really